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Welcome to CS Joseph response. I’m your host chase here to answer your questions on any topic union analytical psychology, where the four sides of the mind also known as four sides dynamics. Today’s question is, what is the best way to attract an ENFP? Woman? And where do I find them? The source of today’s question is Cora, as usual? Let’s take a look at the question. So what is the best way to track the NTP, women woman? And where do I find them? Lena Carrie, who claims to be the NTP, female? Answer the following? People keep asking this question again and again.
So I’m thinking if it would be good idea to create a virtual ENTP intp club where people can find them by location, very systematic, this person NTPs are consumed by intellectual activities all the time, so it may be difficult to find them in common social places. Well said I agree with that statement. I’m an ENTP, female. And the best chance to meet me would be in my office where I work but the problem is my dating switch is always off in a professional environment, which means there’s no way you can attract me, I may not even notice any signs of personal interest.
Okay, that is true. NTP sometimes don’t notice signs of personal interest, usually in professional environments. Although I disagree that her dating switches always off as something indicative of all en teepees. I don’t think that’s remotely true.
Especially in in a working environment. That’s ridiculous. I one time was basically had an ENTJ woman approached me at work and literally asked me out in front of everybody and I accepted in front of everybody, and it’s just random, and then she would return back to her cubicle, and we moved on forward throughout the day. Granted, I recognize that I’m not a female in the process, but ENTPs still need to be made to feel wanted and desired by others, and having someone come up to you directly and tell you what their intentions are towards you.
So that there’s no guessing whatsoever, and that they desire to take you on a date or go somewhere with you directly. It takes a lot of it just makes it so much easier. And everybody so like we can just move on to like the actual you know, going on a date so she says it is difficult to find me via friends because I only have a few of them. So my inner circle is of high quality but it’s limited numbers.
Okay, that’s that’s typical DNTPs This is a dilemma for both NTPs and those who want to meet them. I agree with that. Internet is probably the best option. No, I disagree with that.
And I’ll explain why here in a second. Fuse dating sites. Make sure you specify that you are looking for a specific personality type but be aware that many people miss types themselves. That’s very good advice from Lena.
Use Cora Why not ask a question if there are single NTP women and they’re in your location I’ve never actually thought of that idea before. I will actually take that under advisement. Thank you Lina Carrie for that suggestion. When you meet NTP females remember that she is a rational creature.
No she’s not. She’s a logical creature that people need to stop thinking and teepees are Nash rational because they aren’t appeal to her intellect, not to her emotions. That’s factual. Please do that.
Listen to her talking. Yes, that’s true. Listen, bring interesting deep subjects in a conversation you have to engage your mind for you can engage your heart. things evolved naturally.
That’s very good advice. That’s that’s very, very good advice. Alexandra drover, who is a levels literature in Sociology at see vich college 2019 As a fellow EMTP, I could truly say the best way to attract one of us is intellectual stimulation. Well said, We argued daily.
Yes, we do. I argue with my wife all the time, and she argues with me back it’s fantastic. Fine thing we find things tedious very easily. And lastly, forget things that haven’t made an impression very true.
Things that don’t make an impression on me. I’m just kind of like Matt. We are quick witted and tend not to lose the debate. Sometimes it’s because we refuse.
If someone were to come along and challenge that actually hold our attention through the means of intellectual conversation. We won’t forget you and it could be the start of something great. I’m 19 years of age so you could find me at a bar a lot of the time online on sites like this trying to cram my brain of useless knowledge. Very fair.
Nicola and Martin simulate them intellectually or playfully I’d F anyone who can keep up with me and keep me on my toes. I love banter and teasing. I look for the look for the bed she was always talking laughing and calling people out. She is effervescent acidic level headed and happy to claim the title of bitch show her your her your brain and how you use it to present yourself.
Honestly, I think she’s this person is I think Nicole and Martin. Here’s actually an INTJ Show her you know about her own presentation. Show her that you know about presents give her a delightful surprise to unwrap peace, promiscuous NTP Now this is an INTJ talking don’t listen to this person. This is not this is not ideal.
Luis Swinton says I find intelligence incredibly attractive and ambition. You find this in all sorts of social situations like large lunches with friends concerts and pub bands, and anything artistic like a sculpture exhibition or festival. This is actually really good advice and Louise Swinton knows exactly what she’s talking about. Definitely listen to her.
And it builds ear says definitely knowledge and brain game on unapologetic self identity yet willing to learn grow quick and be direct with confidence online dating and look for one for the one that seems easy to talk and careless because NTP they don’t work hard for external impression. Never fake your motion is a turn off and easily be caught anyway. I mean, apparently, English is not their first language. Be honest, just use humor, expressing them willing to be in the same level overall need to have who cares? mentality? Yeah, that doesn’t make any sense.
And I’m basically going to throw that opinion into the dumpster immediately. So what is the best way to attract an intp woman? And where do I find them? All right now the CS Joseph approach. So it’s, it’s this is often a conundrum because most people don’t even realize how Auntie peas work and TPS are extremely hard to type anyway. I mean, the MBTI teaches people that administer the tests that if you still don’t are unable to figure out what type they are, just assume they’re an intp.
And teepees are the most original of all the types. They’re also the most mysterious of all the types. This is where the archetype of tall, dark and handsome comes from, because NTP men maintain that archetype. Specifically, how do you spot an NTP is that they’re usually wearing a lot of black or dark colors, mostly monochromatic grays, navy, blues, blacks, and usually the majority of the same color at once.
They don’t usually mix and match colors, it’s more of just one solid color all the way from head to toe, typically. And they dress for comfort, they do not dress for aesthetics, but they have that INTJ shadow femme fatale aspect, as an intp woman that they take along with them on a regular basis no matter what they do. But the best way to attract the intp woman is to literally go right up to her and say that you want her? Like, that sounds ridiculous. But I bet Yes, going up to her being direct and just be like, Hey, you should come with me on Demo Day, or, Hey, you should tell me a story.
Hey, you should give me your number. Okay, this is how you do it. And if you’re like an NTJ, or an SFP, because NTPs should be in relationships with INTJ j’s and TJ is inf j’s and ISFPs specifically with a possible NF J in there. But those five types are the types of people that need to be focusing or considering being in a relationship than the intp.
And an intp. should definitely consider relationships with those folks, for sure. And then after that STPs in that order, but for definitely sure. ISFPs INFJs, e and t J’s INTJ, etc.
are pretty good. And if you are one of those n j types, or if you are an ISFP, just go right up to the intp woman and be like, Hey, what’s up? What are you doing? Like it’s incredibly attractive to an intp when you just go up to them and you take an interest in what they’re doing because they want to get your interest. Remember, the seductive style of the intp is known as the coquette and the cochlea is all about extracting desire and just extracting passion from other people. Because their expert intuition hero expert intuition hero basically means that it is their job to become as desirable as possible.
This is why EMTP women are often considered the most desirable of all the women ever. This is why Lou and Draya, Sallie Mae was definitely screwing Frederick Nietzsche, as well as some other guy on the side and having a polyamorous relationship with both of them because both of them wanted her. And she even wrote an entire book on sex, etc. She was literally the Madonna of her age, right.
And as a result of that, she became extremely popular as the sexual icon which is very typical of NTP women, because they’re leveraging the siren seductive style from their INTJ shadow and the CO cat seductive style, their en TP ego, as well as their natural lover of their iossef J subconscious, all at the same time. And they’re able to do this to increase their level of desirability. So from their point of view, they’re only attracted to men who actually prove or demonstrate even in a public manner, their desire for the ESTP and going right up to the NTP basically saying hey, you should come with me I want or I want to go do this. So you should come with me.
You know, I want to go to watch this movie. You should come with me see this NJ man or this SFP man will never actually give the NTP woman a choice, right? It’s so unattractive to an NTP woman to be like, Hey, do you want to go do this with me? That’s like the worst thing you could actually do. Like, don’t do that. Instead, what you need to be doing is like, Hey, you go up to this NTP woman and be like, hey, I want to go do this thing, do you, or I want to go do this thing.
You should come with me, it’s all about you. Sure, you have to obligate the intp. Woman, you have to tell her what she should do. Tell her that she should give you her number, right? Tell her that she should tell you a story, getting an intp to talk about themselves and tell stories about their past, even though it can make them a little insecure at first, but if they trust you, they will share stories about their past and as long as you’re like captivated by their story.
And you’re all we won’t you want to listen to their story. And then you you provide them input on what they’re telling you they become very attracted to you. Oftentimes NTP women just want to be listened to actually and while they these women here like Lena, Carrie etc, on Quora are talking about intellectual stimulation, even an ISFP with their en TJ subconscious can be extremely intellectual, while also being very, very moral, which is a huge turn on for an intp woman. So just keep, just keep that in mind.
The other thing is to like, you just you have to make her feel wanted, you always have to ask her what she thinks. So you have to go out of your way to make her super comfortable because NTP women in general, they kind of hate reality, because they’re typically uncomfortable, like all the time. So you need to go out of your way to make them as comfortable as possible. And you’ll also have to be willing to share exactly how you feel, especially if you’re an E and TJ, where you’re afraid to admit how you feel about anything, because you’re afraid that you’re not good enough, or you’re afraid that you don’t, that you’re not a good enough person or whatever, you and sometimes you’re afraid of sharing your feelings, you have to be straight upfront with them, be direct about it, and just be like, Hey, I feel this way, you know, you have so that’s, that’s, that’s how you do it.
The best way to attract an intp woman is to make them feel wanted, make them feel appreciated. Ask them what they think and go out of your way to make them as comfortable as possible. Help them make their lives easier, you know, and that could be going to get them to Starbucks, their favorite Starbucks drink because usually they have their one go to for whatever restaurant that is they don’t like sampling all the menu or sometimes you want to give them a new experience than they ever had before. Variety is a very novel thing to an ENTP woman.
So you can give them a little bit of variety here and there but also memorize their favorites and bring them their favorites. They really enjoy that seek to make them comfortable. But where do you find NTP women? That’s a very interesting question. NTP women, as as pointed out by Louise Swinton on this core thing.
They’re all NTPs are all into art NTPs. And especially since like bronze or bronze player, which is the ISFP, which technically is statistically most successful marriage for an intp ISFPs are artists, they’re artists, they’re also the ones doing those bands and whatnot. So you always find an ESTP woman at a bar, where there’s a live music, they love live music, they love everything about they also like going to art shows and paintings and observing the art. Sometimes they’ll even go by themselves.
They’ll even go to movie theaters by themselves. So there’s a very artistic movie that just speaks to them. They’re going to go to those places. They’re also they’re very, I mean, they are intellectuals, they do anything intellectual related.
You can also find ENTP women at Magic the Gathering card shops, playing cards with the guys that’s actually very common, maybe even Pokemon cards etc. They also tend to play MMO RPGs every now and then not very often. They also like to play support in league of legends or jungle support or jungle they’re not really in the top or bottom or attack damage carry. Although I have noticed some NTP women doing Attack Damage carry, they’re just not really good at it, quite frankly.
They’re usually typically better at support or jungle quite awesome, quite honestly. Also, like they go they like they love dancing, they like going to the clubs as well. And again, they’re just like that they’re very mysterious. So fanfic doll, dark looking person, etc.
Sometimes you can find them sitting in a bar or a coffee shop completely by themselves dressed and grays and blacks doing literally nothing but work and just sitting there when the reality situation is they’re actually just fishing for attention. So go sit right next to them. They’re like, Hey, can I get your coffee? Or hey, you should tell me a story or hey, you know, and after they tell you some stories you end the conversation with you should give me your number. Don’t give them a choice to give you their number tell them that they should obligate them into giving their number because you know, it’s like you listen to their story, give me your number and then they’ll do it because it makes them feel wanted you have to make them feel desired.
So this and this is literally how it is the best way to attract an ESTP woman and as much as is the best way to attract the intp man. Make sure that they know that they are wanting make sure that they understand that you You’re going to ask them what they think all the time and be ready to receive that harsh criticism or that harsh truth. They love it when they do. And you have to show them appreciation and recognition for all the good things that they do for others and all the good things that they do for you.
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