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It’s right here. What does the ESTP fear most of all in the world, and it was as well doesn’t say who it was asked by? But I guess it was just a question that is here. So fair enough? I’ll answer the question regardless. So ESTP is where is where’s fear located in the four sides of mind fear is located primarily within the Inferior function also known as the infant function as the fourth function of any cognitive stack within the ego the ego is the first side of the mind it contains the hero, the parent, the child function, and the inferior also known as the infant function.
This this is also known as the second cognitive gateway. The second column of Gateway is very critical to a person’s personal growth, because mastering this gateway mastering this function and the four sides of mind give somebody the ability to basically have full access to their subconscious to be able to cognitive transition to their subconscious and become a different type entirely for a temporary period of time. And for the ESTP type that is the INFJ side of the mind, which is their subconscious. However, in order to gain access to their subconscious in a healthy way, and not a destructive way, not in a chaotic way, they have to get over their fear.
And they have to develop, develop courage, essentially, develop hope. And having no hope, or, and being afraid of, you know, not having hope is is probably a component of the biggest fear of an ESTP. However, the absolute biggest fear an ESTP has is loss of freedom of choice, basically being thrown into a prison being put into a cage being locked into a room where they can’t get out. The Rage is extreme.
So if you have like a small child, you put them in a room like okay, go to your room, and then you lock the door in, they’re locked in the room, they will thrash and destroy that room, they will be insanely Rayji. And it’s like, okay, yeah, chances are, that’s an ESTP child, because they will not allow anyone to take away their freedom of choice, such that they are willing to sacrifice other people’s safety and comfort for the sake of their own freedom and choice. And that’s one of the ways that ESTP can come off as insanely selfish, because they’re often willing to put other people at risk for the sake of their freedom of choice. When compared to an ISTP.
That’s not really the case or even an ISFP. That’s not the case, because they’ve matured intuition child, but they have extroverted sensing parent, expert sensing parent is a bit more responsible and sort of expert sensing hero. So because it’s a bit more responsible, a bit more pessimistic, they’re actually willing to let go of their freedom of choice for the sake of the safety or comfort or other people around them. Whereas the ESTP is just not really willing to do that.
The ESTP would really actually have to have a high amount of respect, or desire or passion for the person for them be willing to let go their freedom of choice for the sake of the other person. But that may just be only one person in their entire life that they may actually ever do that for. And it’s usually their children, or a child or a child of choice for the ESTP. Or maybe the one person there apprenticing.
Yeah, it could be their love, or it could be their wives or their husbands. But oftentimes, it usually is not the case because ESTPs are more suited for relationships with high Introverted Sensing, Introverted Sensing parent and hero, for example, who can actually actually don’t mind if they’re forced to do things don’t mind if their choices are being taken away, because they just want to be told what to do, which is, you know, very central to who they are. So they don’t really mind that so much. So the ESTP usually is willing to let go their freedom of choice, usually for someone that they insanely intrinsically care about, like a child or an apprentice of some kind, because quite frankly, the purpose of life for the ESTP other than exposing truth is to take on an apprentice and transfer everything that they knew all the wisdom, all the knowledge that they’ve ever gathered at their whole life and transfer that upon another person, their apprentice, basically.
But at the end of the day, their greatest fear is no freedom of choice. And that’s why when they’re when they’re picking people to be in relationships, and they they pick people who give them the most freedom of choice that they would ever have, essentially, because freedom of choice is absolutely everything to them. Take away their freedom of choice that’s how you kill their soul and an example of introverted intuition inferior would be the man’s most recent Tiger kingdom. documentary on Netflix, which Joe exotic talks about how, you know, why do animals die when they’re in a cage, it’s because their soul dies.
And he’s basically talking about how Introverted Intuition inferior. You know, it’s great as nightmares to basically be in jail, and he’s in jail convicted of attempted murder, essentially. And he’s going to be, you know, he’s going to basically die in prison. And he’s so scared about that.
It’s his Introverted Intuition inferior. And quite frankly, when it comes to Inferior functions, and incarceration or imprisonment or anything like that, quite frankly, it is cruel and unusual punishment. It really is because it’s the most sensitive part of a person’s soul. But most of our society is completely unaware of how that actually works.
Whereas you could take someone like Napoleon Bonaparte and exile him to an island doesn’t really affect them that much. Because, you know, it’s like he wasn’t put on the island for being a bad person, which is his Introverted feeling inferior by his Introverted intuition, his freedom of choice is a responsible parent. The thing is that even though he was exiled to the islands, well guess what, he ended up coming back and taking over France again and had another series of wars but eventually he lost it to Wellington at Waterloo. So you know, it is what it is.
So, but that just kind of gives you an idea of like how, you know, everyone is different and people receive punishments differently. So is one of the reasons why, you know, some children should be spanked and some children should not be spanked Hi Introverted Sensing, or mostly introverted sensors, who have Introverted Sensing and their ego, those are the children to spank. Whereas the children that have Introverted intuition in their ego, you just take away their choices, you take away the freedom, and they’ll snap to right away. So there’s different ways to approach children when it comes to these different things, etc.
And if you’re raising an ESTP, you just take away their freedom of choice. But then it’s like you always give them a choice with anything. So like, so what you have to do to beat an ESTP. This eighth regard is you play a Zanna toast Gambit, take a small child, for example, do a Santos Gambit, this child’s like I don’t want to go to bed and he’s not going to bed, it’s not going to bed as ESTP child will not go to bed because he doesn’t want to go to bed, you’re constantly tell him to go to bed and he’s not going to obey your order.
So what you do is you go to the child and be like, Okay, do you want to go to bed now? Or do you want to go to bed in five minutes, you give them the choice. The Santos Gambit is that whatever choice the child picks, it benefits you in the end, that’s how you basically get an ESTP to comply, you just make sure that whatever choice they choose benefits you or is within your interest. Because you see these are very interest based, they’re aware of what you’re getting out situation, they’re aware of what they’re getting out of situation, they just want to be presented choices where they can at least get something out of it. And then they’re not remotely motivated to do anything unless they’re getting something out of it, which is also an aspect of their freedom of choice.
Because from their point of view is like, why am I going to bother making this choice? If I’m not going to be getting anything out of it? You know, and so I don’t want to make that choice, and you better respect my freedom for it. So when you say do you want to go to bed now you want to go to bed in five minutes, the child decides to go to bed in five minutes. It’s like, okay, and then five minutes later, it’s like, it’s time to go to bed. They’re like, No, no, no.
And it’s like, well, you made the choice and like, okay, yeah, you’re right, it did. And then they’ll go, they’ll immediately go to bed like that. And it’s no problem. Like it’s just an Santos Gambit wins in the end, right.
But think about this collectively, from a macro level. How many times have people in power or people in government actually deployed zazzles Gambit among among the masses. And then given people bad choices? Well, it happens every election year. For example, the American elections, Americans in the United States of America only have the right to elect but they do not have the right to see elect, right.
So Americans do not have the right to select their candidates that the party has put forward for them, you know, that are running for office, they have the right to choose from a pool of people that are chosen for them, which means it’s a constant Santos Gambit. So if there is someone behind the scenes actually secretly controlling the political parties from behind the scenes, they would always choose regardless of which party is present in the political system, candidates that benefit them, and put that in front of the American populace and the American populace will choose whichever those candidates and then at the end of the day that one candidate benefits the person behind the scenes controlling everything. This is one of the reasons why people have started to realize especially over the last 1015 years, it doesn’t matter what President they elect, it always ends up creating the same endless cycle of problems no matter what. And any anything to the contrary is actually an illusion, which funnily enough ESTPs are extremely aware of this because of their fear of freedom of choice being taken away.
It is absolutely fundamental to who they are as a human being. You cannot have a good relationship, friendship, or any interaction with an ESTP if you ever take away their choice because it will just turn into hatred, and that hatred will lead to rage and they will for Are you against your will in order to guarantee their freedom of choice because if they have to make the decision between your choice or their choice, they will always pick their own choice, and they will always take away your freedom to guarantee their freedom, something for you guys to consider. Anyway, if you’d like your chance, if you’d like a chance that your questions are being answered on this channel, please post it on Quora and tag me or leave it as a comment below. If you want a guaranteed answer for your question.
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