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In this video, I’ll be answering the question, how do I make an ISFP happy. But before I can get into that, I need to just subscribe to the channel and hit the alert Bell. So I can say so you can stay up to date on like when I go live or when new videos are posted, etc. So that being said, Welcome to CS Joseph response.
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So we have Sabrina elke, who is a partner at humanity, and she says I’m not ISFP, but I have much experience with them. As both my mom and sister are this type. I doubt that I’ve gathered some of what they say and some of what I think to be true as well. Anyways, give them their own space.
Now sure, many types might enjoy this, but ISFPs love to linger in their own presence. And they don’t like this one is disrespected, and also like to give others their own space. This is actually very fair. And that’s that’s a good point.
So yeah, good point, Sabrina. And then sensory experiences, she says, with an exclamation point, I find that most ISFPs have a knack for some artistic talents and interests. So naturally, they search for these things. My mom not only cooks, but you could truly feel the heart and passion that goes into every bite.
Other things might include music going out to eat carnivals, and other general activities like that guy, this is not exactly accurate. She really should be saying shared experiences, not really sensory experiences. Any experience could be appropriate to an ISFP it says who they’re sharing it with. It’s all about giving other people have experience or sharing experiences with other people.
That’s more ISFP. Then she says being with loved ones, okay, I found that even though my ISFPs loved their own space, if they really liked you, they let you into it. My sister will often walk into my room and just sit next to me not saying anything. She feels perfectly comfortable laying next to others in silence.
All that jabber isn’t needed sometimes. Okay, whatever. Allow them their own pace. Okay, I have to admit, I found these types to be extremely sound Getting Things Done preach it woman.
Yes, Sabrina knows for a fact that ISFPs are slow AF. That’s just reality. My sister and often tells me that she doesn’t want to be forced to do anything like cleaning, and would rather just come up with the idea of doing it. But that means cleaning would only happen twice a year.
Hmm. Anyways, once they get to do it, it’s usually Perfect. Okay, so Sabrina is basically aware at this point of the virtue advice of ISFPs, which is being idle, for example, or being extremely diligent and getting a lot of things done, so they kind of go back and forth. The next answer is provided by Joshua servants, or Sabanci who has survived depression, depersonalization and eating disorders.
Well, he definitely hasn’t survived feminism, that’s for sure. Geez, how many times have I read this disclaimer anyway, answering it’s a hybrid i f SP slash INFP. Results may not be typical smiley face, I will take that smiley face and step on it. But these things are but these are things that make me the most happy Okay.
alone time music singing people genuine connection others acting movies, spontaneous activity, the right kind of surprises, whatever harmony between peers. Sometimes I’ll literally just stop talking sit back and enjoy communicating peaceably. That is until someone notices me recognition of my work not necessarily me. Finally, figuring a person out helping anyone without receiving too much praise any extreme sport journaling more alone time.
Deep interpersonal conversations then the loved one especially alone, you know those conversations of a million oh my gosh, she just keeps going A stupid deep Pillow Talk. Wow. All right, bro. You’re not an ISFP you’re an INFP.
Why are you commenting here? Please, please get us away from from this. I will right now. Awesome. So what makes an ISFP happy? The first thing that you can do to make any ISFP happy.
I mean, this is like like, like imagine, imagine you’re in a bar, you know. And you see this ISFP woman there that you’ve typed because you’re an expert at the Type grid by now and you understand interaction styles and temperaments and cognitive axis axes, as well as Quadra. You see this ISFP girl sitting alone at the bar just hanging out because her friend just went to the bathroom or whatever. And you know, she’s just like, Huh, well, interesting pickup line, you go right up to her and just be like, you know, hey, wow, I, I think pretty highly of you.
Why? Why do you think highly of her? You know? So like, comment on how she’s dressed? Or comments on how artistic she is? Or maybe she’s drawing something comment on that. But you basically say, Hey, I think that’s cool. I think you’re cool. I think this you have to be like, I think something positive.
This goes directly for her expert thinking inferior. And if you ever want to make someone super happy, you target their inferior and you give their inferior, what it’s desperately looking for. And it immediately sets you apart from other people. Here’s another thing that makes them happy.
They are so worried about being uncaring. So you give them show them gratitude for how caring they are, because they’re worried that they’re actually very selfish people, because they kind of technically are, let’s be honest. It’s like if I hero, but they can be very giving, because they often worry about whether or not they’re giving. So like, be aware of that, you know what I’m saying? They’re like, live in the moment.
So like, here’s another way, like, if you want to pick up this ISFP girl on the bar, just be like, yo, hey, I’m gonna go do this thing. Do you want to come with me? It’s that simple. You just give her the choice, hey, do you want to come with, I want to do this, you know, you want to come with, you know, I mean, especially if you’re a man, you should be making yourself your own mental point of origin. And it’s all about what you’re doing.
And you just invite her to come with you. And she’s kind of like a side piece to what you’re doing, essentially. And that’s like how you can have a really good relationship with an ISFP woman, for example. So like, why not, you know, like, why wouldn’t you? Right? So yeah, I mean, that’s, that’s how you make an ISFP.
Happy in general. But yeah, always make sure that you’re telling them that you think highly of them for some reason, always be willing to drop something for them at an instant, because se users especially SPS, love it, when their people around them, stop everything they’re doing for them. And it makes an ISFP feel very, very important whenever you stop paying attention to whatever you’re paying attention to. And then you give them your attention.
Because ISFPs they love them attention. I mean, they’re kind of like attention, whores, let’s be honest. And I love them some attention. So give them attention to make them feel good.
You know, I’m saying, always give them freedom of choice, always give them choices, just make sure whatever choices you give them benefit you hashtag Santos Gambit. But the bottom line is, as long as you give them choices and give them freedom, there’s good, you know, assuage their worries by saying that they’re very caring person, right? Again, tell them that you think highly of them may really love that. Also, anytime they actually remember something, praise them for that, gosh, if he’s loved them some praise, you know what I’m saying? Recognize that they kind of just, you know, are not aware of other people’s intentions. So protect them.
If you see someone who has dark intentions towards an ISFP provide them warnings, because it makes them feel safe. And they just they love it even more. And actually, you keeping them safe actually creates loyalty inside of an ISFP towards you. It’s amazing.
Again, tell them that you think highly of them, in fact, tell other people that you think highly of them, so it gets back to them, and either do it in front of them or do it behind their back, but then it comes back on and because let’s be honest, folks ISFPs live, and they live for credit, they live for credit, they always gotta have themselves them credit, you know what I’m saying? Always gotta have that credit. Credit is everything to an ISFP especially when it comes to like their art neoen signing their name to art for example, I actually just got a an amazing painting sent to me by an ISFP woman from Europe, for example, we’re putting up here behind here real soon as soon as I can either convinced my parents to ship it to me or we have to drive out to their house to actually pick it up. But it’s a fantastic amazing piece. And I’m very happy to have been given it and I’m going to be hanging up on the wall but you know when she signed her name to it, okay, so again, you know, their name, their brand, you know, their status or reputation is everything to an ISFP so you need to be going out of your way to support that status as often as possible.
And if you do this, the ISFP will like literally be like so happy to say oh, there’s no one like you out there, etc and You’ll be like the best of friends because they just love it. Come on guys read the book, Dale Carnegie wrote How to Win Friends and Influence People you got to do is to get people to talk about themselves. And you get an ISFP to talk about themselves very easily. All you have to do is just comment on their status comments on how their reputation in a positive way or their art, etcetera, get them to talk about their art, get them to talk about what they’re doing, right.
That’s basic, you know, standard psychology, you know, check out the Dale Carnegie’s book, if you haven’t CS joseph.ly, forward slash reading, you can find a link to the book directly there. And it’s also like my entire library, just so you folks know. So anyway, folks, if you’d like your chance, if you’d like a chance that your question being answered on this channel, please post it on Quora and tag me or leave us a comment below. And with all that being said, Folks, I’ll see you guys tonight.
