Season 9, Episode 5 Transcript


– Hey, it’s CS Joseph with doing another episode of the Season where we are comparing the types. It is a user requested seasone or playlist if you’re on the YouTube channel, which most of you are for and also the podcast. So we’re gonna be continuing to move forward with that, and today we’re gonna be comparing the ESFJ to the ISFJ. And I would like to state, I realized that the audience wants more INFJ content, but I’ve technically already done the INFJ lecture on this series. So if you haven’t seen it yet, I recommend you go and check it out, ’cause it was a user request much, much earlier so I released it, right? And also I realized I haven’t released any videos in 72 hours just… Well, I mean that’s because my children were visiting. And when that happens, my dining room studio is completely destroyed and converted because I live in such a small place, its not very much room. And it’s also difficult to film when I’m standing in, food on the floor, dirty table, Nintendo’s not able to hold my camera up, it’s just a lot of drama. 


So, with that all being said, let’s dive into the ESFJ plus, or versus the ISFJ. So, both types of SJ types, they’re in the same SJ temperament, past focused, duty based, protectors, traditionalists. One is informed initiating movement, that is the ESFJ, the other one is informative, responding control, that is the ISFJ, movement versus control. So ESFJ is fly by the seat of their pants they’re very quick, some people may consider them to be impatient or others may consider ISFJ to be too patient. In fact, ISFJ are the most patient of all of the types and because of how patient they are, they literally can through… They can suffer basically anything and endure anything, their endurance factor is insanely high. That’s not to say ESFJ are not capable of endurance which they do have a very high endurance but no one beats the ISFJ in terms of endurance, they can just outlast basically anything, even more than an INTP or an IFP going full on apathy mode with RSI child, ISFJ could definitely beat that pretty good so… They’re both informative and in fact, I believe the ISFJ is triple informative which means they’re ego, they’re subconscious and their shadow are all informative at the same time, which means there’s no such thing as directness coming out of them. What so ever? And that also includes the ESFJ the other triple direct type. 


So they are both tripled direct, which means you can never get a straight answer out of them. They’re always got what they’re going to say all of it always has to be decrypted, because it will be cryptic. There’s always added subtext or context or context changes the same thing, they say the same thing twice, but under a different context as different meaning. So you have to be aware of that context or that subtext and know how to decrypt them in order to communicate with them and that can be an issue. ISFJ are responding, which means they prefer you to come to them instead of them initiating with you. Whereas the ESFJ is actually going to be initiating with people. That’s really the difference between introversion versus extroversion if you’re trying to figure out, if you were an ISFJ or ESFJ make sure you were paying attention to whether or not you initiate with people or whether or not you respond to people more often. Remember, if you’re responding, you prefer people to come to you and keep you informed instead of you going to somebody else and informing somebody else or extracting the information that you need out of somebody in order to get something done, right? It is completely different. So, that is the ESFJ and the ISFJ interaction styles, and we just talked about the temperate. 


So, let’s dive into the cognitive functions. All right, so ESFJ. The ESFJ ego, we have Fe Hero in ethics, they are so ethical, in fact, they just know how everyone feels. They walk in a room and they instantly know how everyone feels to the point where they are just so caring, and they’re so supportive of every human being they come into contact with, to the risk of being a doormat. Yay! Yes. Yes ESFJ, the biggest doormat of all of the types easily taken advantage of by almost anyone, unless of course they remember with rest apparently you’ve screwed them in the past, and in which case they’ll remember that you screwed them, and then like fool me once, shame on me, fool me twice, shame on you is so the way the ESFJ. Oh, but wait the ISFJ. See they’re so insecure about your intentions to begin with and generally afraid until you’ve like proven yourself with giving them a good experience with their SI hero. That they’re kind of just usually going to assume that until proven otherwise guilty until proven innocent is the way of the ISFJ, ESF is don’t do that. But the ISFJ guilty until proven innocent thing basically means, until you prove yourself they’re already going to assume that your intentions like by default are pessimistic towards your, intentions. 


Whereas the ESFJ is optimistic towards intentions, why is that? Ne-child, remember, heroes and children Ti, are functions or optimistic whereas, the parently inferior are pessimistic, right? So what does that mean? That means that, oh, I wouldn’t be so supportive of you, and I’m a doormat, but you what? That’s only once if you take advantage of me then I’m gonna remember. See the ESFJ is willing to allow you to take advantage of them whereas the ISFJ not gonna be willing to allow you to take advantage of them. And then if you end up taking advantage succeeding and taking advantage of the ISFJ they really hate you then. And then they will stop at nothing to bring you to justice whereas ESFJ, not so much. Yes, both types hold a grudge, but nothing like an ISFJ, the ISFJ will take that to the bank and they will load it over you for 30, 40, 50 years. I remember that one time you cheated on me and that’s justifying my behavior now, 50 years later. Wow! That’s appropriate, thanks, ISFJ for like remembering everything, you know there’s this one passage in old saying that says, never… Think it was called like the Love Chapter, it would say “Don’t keep a record of wrongs.” but ISFJ keep records of wrongs more than any other human being you’d ever come into contact with, that’s just fantastic. 


Oh, but don’t worry, ESFJ due too just, not as much as ISFJ, ISFJ are all about fairness and justice. So we have to keep score it literally, every little thing you do positive or negative, oh, but because my Fe parent is pessimistic. I’m usually good to just remember the bad things that you’ve done instead remember the good things that you’ve done for me and then holds you accountable for it later. Wow! That’s really appropriate, such great nurturing socially available, amazing caring people you ISFJ, so endearing. As you stick me in a guillotine and chop my head off because justice is served. Oh and you do it, especially since I’m your family member, direct family. Hey, maybe I’m even your son doesn’t matter, you’re still willing to sell me down river, if I just did some random injustice because the justice is more important to me than my own children, amazing. Guys stop doing that, seriously, you have to understand ISFJ that justice is not more important than your relationships and it’s funny because INFJ kind of understand that more than you do but INFJ is they also have Fe Parent but they have S inferior. So they’re still at least willing to give people a good experience even if they feel like that that person’s a total dick or a waste or someone they don’t want to be around, but at least they’re willing to give people a chance, ISFJ this whole like, I’m just gonna hold onto this one thing and hold it against you for everything. Like, let go, like seriously, like go and yes, I understand INFJ do that too. But at least they’re more open-minded about it ISFJ are very closed minded about that. I mean, they’re literally the people that are the first ones to stick their head in the sand because ooh, that’s scary, so head goes in the stand, I’ll be fine, don’t worry. And it’s like, come on, stop being like an ostrich, that’s not how it works, you know what I mean? Anyway, ESFJ can kind of do the same thing too, these types are very, very interesting, so the Ti Child or the ISFJ for example, they’re can’t really… 


They’re all about what they think, right? Whereas, and they do it like an innocent little child, so their logic is very pure, it’s very pure, and they, to be honest they can be really brilliant with their Ti Child. So Brilliant, that brilliant, that they can access their ENTP subconscious which is an intellectual, right? And that ENTP subconscious further adds to their brilliance. Now, ESFJ have INTP, which they can also be really freaking brilliant. I mean, I knew this one, ESFJ faces one time, and I was like, how, how are you even possible? Why do you exist? Well, it’s because there another ESFJ in this woman’s family and they were constantly trying to out ESFJ each other. So she never got to have the opportunity to do that but her father was an ENTJ and really wanted her to be like, INTP-ish so it just kind of went into this thing that worked there’s a little compatibility there. So she really hyper developed her INTP subconscious and became super brilliant physicist woman. And it’s like, wow, I didn’t even know that was a thing and her Ti Inferior is actually very well-developed for herself. Even though she had to suffer through an insanely painful childhood to get it. So just to kind of show you how things go, Oh but she’s also the most nicest lady and most supportive lady you ever met to the point where she’ll even offer to do your dishes after you have her over to dinner. Because that’s her contribution never take away and the NSFJ opportunity at making a contribution to you because if you do, they’ll hate you for it, and there was in for it and the be better for it in the same way that ISFJ are except ISFJ are technically more bitter. But ISFJ are actually willing to allow you to do the dishes for them because, they’re not always like willing to do it all the time.


 They’ll do it because that’s what they should do but having a respite to them, it means a lot more than to an ESFJ. So back to the functions, ’cause we’re like jumping around all over the place, but that’s okay. SFJ be in the ISFJ my subconscious, I love talking about them and all the positive and negative ways I possibly can. So anyway, Fe Hero all about how the people feel, they walk in the room, they know how everyone feels, they’re very ethical, social norms are everything to them. SI parent makes them, very justice oriented, very dutiful and it’s the point where ESFJ are forcing other people to go on family outings, family traditions, family gatherings, especially when those family don’t even like each other they’re going to force everyone to participate because oh, we’re a family and the tradition of the family is the most important thing to me. And even if I’m an ESFJ man, I’m still gonna force you to go to this thanksgiving dinner that you hate eating every single year but I’m going to make you do it anyway, because that’s the family. Wow! Yeah. No, thank you. I mean, I’m an ENTP, like why would I want to do that? I mean, some of you are watching this mic but I mean, I don’t, I’m not going to do that. Sorry, no thank you. 


So Si Hero, very similar to Si parents, it was very optimistic ISFJ really know what they want to taste, they, like to experience new things, they can experience anything, they can endure anything with their Si hero which is fantastic that they do that, right? I think it’s pretty dope, that they don that. ESFJ is there… They’re not really the one to because they’re more pessimistic, they’re turning sensitive, they’re not willing to take as many risks as the ISFJ is. It’s kinda weird though, that ISFJ is more closed minded yet they’re willing to take more risks. How does that work? It just does, Si Hero just wants to experience more, it wants to experience everything, it’s usually not satisfied until it’s experienced everything. Unless of course it’s succumb to and bowing before organized religion then it will continue to have its close by NS because only their religion could possibly be true Ti Child because all the other religions aren’t true. And then I’m gonna enforce that religion all my family and my friends and my children until the day they die to the point of telling them they’re horrible human beings that they do not continue to follow the organized religion that I chose for them. Yay! no stop. No, that’s not… That’s not true. ISFJ are like the enforcer, right? They enforce everything, they enforce rules. This is our family tradition, this is our family standard I’m going to enforce it. They’re all about force, why? It’s because in order to motivate and ISFJ to do anything, you have to force them. They only thing they understand is force it’s not about what you want. I mean, to them, they’re not going to let you want anything because they’re afraid of what you want. So instead, I’m just gonna force you because I’m used to being forced by everybody, it’s all about force. 


ESFJ is not so much, they’re actually motivated more so about giving to others and giving other people what they want. Whereas the ISFJ, they’re more like afraid of that or more just kind of like, eh, pessimistic towards that. So they have to be forced more. Yeah, they can be super caring but it’s because they’re forced into being caring at times. Whereas the ESFJ it’s like, Oh, I’m just gonna be giving and you don’t have to force me into it. It’s really weird how they, differ in that way as ISFJ. You know what I mean? It’s really weird. So, both of them have super long-term memory ’cause the past and as a parent and then heroes Si Hero remembers even more than Si Parent. Just remember that, because these two are high intruded treated sensing, if they had a choice between and dementia, these two types would develop dementia in their latter years. And also because they’re SFJs, they’re also the two types that have the highest life expectancy of all the types. These people live forever, these are the people living past 100, their SFJ all of them, is really weird how that works, but I mean they can endure anything. They have that huge Si parent hero in endurance, so they can just keep going and going and going like the Energizer rabbit. And to this day I have no idea why I rabbit is their mascot? I wish they figure that out? Make it like a space shuttle or something, I don’t know, not a rabbit, come on. 


So, Ne child… Oh, I wanna give you balloons and candy, Oh, I just wanna give you what you want. And then, because you know, the ESFJ they go to the used car lot and there they just wanna make the sales person happy, right? They’re gonna make the sales person happy and give the salesperson what they want and make the sales person feel good. Yeah, never let the, ESFJ go to a used car lot by themselves ever because they’re gonna get taken for a ride literally. And not literally at the same time watch out for that ESFJ’s you gotta be super careful because that Fe Hero and that Ne child, Oh man I’m the ultimate doormat, I’m gonna be taken advantage of by everyone so be careful but… And the Ti Inferior always given its day in court, right? Now, ISFJ the Ti Child, it doesn’t care that much if you don’t really listen to it, it will wants to be listened to. But the thing is is that if you’re not listening to it, the ISFJ will get in your face and pin you to the wall and force you to listen to it. So they don’t really care if they’re not listened to because one way or another, you’re going to listen to them and they’re going to force it upon you. But ESFJ is not really going to force you to listen to them, but they still need their day in court. And if you do not give the ESFJ a day of court of your own free will, why? 


Because Ne Child needs you to want to listen to them first, whereas Ti Child is you’re going to listen to me whether you like two or whether you want to or not, but the ESFJ is still going to give you the opportunity to choose whether or not you want to listen to them. And I recommend that you want to listen to them because if you do not, they will hate you and if this Ti Inferior is not responded to or respected to the Te Demon will come out and they will turn themselves in this insanely ENTJ demonic person, this demonic force. And not only will they force you to listen to them but they will literally control every aspect of your life. Now that’s not to say that an ISFJ, INTJ demon will not control aspects of your life. I mean, we’ve all heard the stories of ISFJ, getting cars for their children, but making sure that their name is on the title of the car to in order to control their children. It’s like, okay, well, I can take your car away if you’re not gonna do what I tell you even though that child is technically 24 years old like that happens. But it’s usually on a person by person basis, it’s usually like on a one-on-one situation varies for the situation. The ENTJ demon is just gonna take over your life in every single aspect and control you, control the money control, the time, control everything you do all because you did not listen to ESFJ Ti Inferior. They’re so insecure about what they think, that they walk around afraid that they’re stupid in order for them to not feel stupid anymore. 


You need to want to listen to them so that you can give them feedback based on their thoughts because the Fe Hero, needs gratitude and recognition and if you’re not giving them that feedback, what the hell? They need that feedback so they can stop feeling afraid that they’re stupid right? And it’s like, okay, well, if you’re not listening to me, you must think Te demon, that I’m stupid. So if that’s the case after everything I’ve done for you Si Parent and Fe Hero, I am going… This is when like the demon corrupts the upper functions, right? I’m gonna control your life, I’m control everything about your life until you want to listen to me. The beatings will continue until morale improves. Yeah, they SFJ way. Yes, that’s how we do it. Mm! Painful, yes. Me and the gut. All right, so. All right okay, so yes. We talk about Ti child, Ne Inferior is just naturally afraid of the intentions of other people, naturally afraid of what other people want what other people desire. This guy might screw me, right? They are aware at all times that someone or something bad could happen to them and back stab them and be treacherous to them. So they are very careful where they put their loyalty, right? They’re very careful who they are loyal to with their Si Hero because, they don’t know if this person’s going to screw them later or want to screw them later, this person could have bad intentions. 

Whereas the ESFJ not so much because like, Oh, I’m a little kid, I think everybody in the world has good intentions towards me. Whereas the ISFJ like, everyone in the world is out to screw me, potentially. I gotta watch out protect myself against them screwing me or my family or people I know or people I care about, right? Completely different perspective, very different perspective. And you have the anti piece of conscious where the ISFJ can just all of a sudden start having these insane visions and then all of a sudden they think they’re a prophet at church for some weird reason. Guys, no, it’s your ENTP subconscious shut up about the prophet stuff, please. So with that in mind, ENTP subconscious, it has visions, it could see the future, it’s able to predict things, social changes also it can have really innovative ideas insanely innovative ideas, especially at creating really cool gadgetry or cool things. Especially, when they’re going out and building, you give an ISFJ a hammer and nail after they’ve been trained on how to use a hammer nail appropriate, they can build some really cool stuff that you’d never thought of. Also ISFJ because of that ENTP piece of consciousness that’s sounded weird. But they’re amazing decorators because all of their decor is insanely innovative and they can really go the extra mile with it. ESFJ is with their INTP subconscious, like you’re gonna find those ESFJ physicists or those ESFJ computer programmers, and it’s like, where the hell did you learn how to program? They can actually do it. It’s also kind of interesting, ’cause ENFJS can too Ti Inferior is actually very capable of computer programming, believe it or not, as long as they’re not afraid. 


Because it’s easy for them to not be afraid about programming when the computer is telling them they’re doing it right. Or if they’re doing it wrong and then they can fix it. And then the program starts working and it’s all about logic, and then they have their aspiring, their IMTP subconscious then they could like really do some major feats of engineering, right? And they can engineer also source of things, even like, well I mean they can engineer new technologies, implement new technologies that never existed before, I mean, especially like with ESFJ has get into like health care eventually, like if they’re like a doctor or a nurse and ESFJ doctor or nurse will eventually start inventing entirely new technologies, surrounded surrounding healthcare. It’s just whatever they’re into, right? Whatever they have experienced with that’s the key will help them engineer what they need to to be a subconscious. And it’s a really amazing thing to see but again, they have to get rid of the inferior and start being aspirational of their Ti, and no longer be insecure, no longer be afraid that they’re stupid, right? Whereas with the ISFJ they need to no longer afraid that people aren’t going to screw them. Oh, because people are not out to screw me and I don’t have to spend so much time trying to protect myself, I can start innovating. That’s literally how it works, right? So on the shadow, ISFJ, ESFP shadow, they got some really nice wisecracks and some really good jokes that ESFP shadow can actually be insanely hilarious. My mother has an ESFP shadow ’cause she is an ISFJ and wow, She is really funny sometimes. And Se Nemesis is all about being worried about the moment and worry about the physics and worried about the experience that they’re giving off to other people or worrying about how their children are dressed before they go to school or worried about the dog hair that you have on you and they’re gonna pick it off of you, et cetera. 


Now, yes, ESFJ are going to do that. But here’s the difference between the two. Se Critic, Like seriously Se Critic makes ESFJS super elitist, okay? Se Critic is elitism, it is being the elite ESTJ and ESFJ both do this, is why both types especially when they’re in the gym, they totally go all out. They got to get their haves. It’s all about that elitism, right. I mean, why not? But that’s how they are, and then if they see you with your shoe untied or your shirt’s not buttoned correctly, or something’s wrong with you or a physical getup, or if you have an undershirt and you’re not showing your man hair, you know what I mean? Your chest hair, they’re going to criticize you, and they’re going to think less of you for it, it’s really dumb, and they can get super lite. They’re literally going to tell you that, you’re a loser because you went into walmart, what? Yes but that’s where that comes from Se Critic. 


That is exactly where that those types of things come from is se critical, while you drive that brand of car, you’re a loser, the Se Criticalism. ISFJ, they’re not going to do that, they’re more worried about it. See, here’s a good difference, you got a bunch of dog hair on you your eyes SJ, family members just gonna, it doesn’t matter who it is. They’re gonna come up to you, they’re just gonna start picking it off of you. Whereas the ESFJ is just going to stand from a distance and tell you, you got a lot of dog hair you should probably do something about that. But they themselves aren’t going to do it unless you ask them. And then they’re Fe hero and Ne child Well, Oh, he wants me to do that Okay, yeah, I’ll do that, right? Now of course, if you’re, their child they probably may just end up doing it anyway on their own because Si parent is activating but that’s more of an ISFJ thing. The ISFJ thing is the first one to leap in out of the two to like fix that problem ’cause they’re gonna use their Ti child and the Fe parent. And I should do this Si hero, and they’re going to get it fixed up for you right away, and they’re not gonna, waste any time because they are worried about the experience of the people getting, whereas these people are critical about the experiences that is being given to themselves and to others, et cetera. And then you have Fi critic, ISFJ walk around feeling worthless and useless and negative towards their self worth all the time, so that they developed this insanely high, moral standard then hold everyone else to it to the point where it alienates everyone in their lives especially when they get ahold of… Or when organized religion gets a hold of them, and then they just start alienating everybody else with their faith, why? Well, because the virtue advice, the ISFJ is faith versus fear, yay, where this is caregiving versus caretaking. What is the difference? 


Faith versus fear, you will never find a more faithful person than the ISFJ to you mean ISFJ little boys, who’ve never been in a church before all of a sudden start randomly praying, and then believing that bigfoot and Santa Claus is a real thing because faith is their thing. Faith is the virtue of the ISFJ, they are so faithful, that’s what allows them to endure any hardship. They can get through it, whereas this is more like, Oh, hey, ESFJ I’m going to be very caregiving towards you. And then all of a sudden the switch to caretaking and it’s like, okay, now it’s a covert contract and I’m gonna be so caring towards you but I expect caring from you in return. And I’m not even going to tell you that I expect that of you, yeah, that’s care-taking versus caregiving. Caregiving is all about giving that care without expecting anything in return. Caretaking is a covert contract where you’re giving care and definitely expecting something in return. Oh, if I scratch your back, I, you better scratch mine but I’m not going to tell you that I expect you to scratch mine, and then when you don’t, I’m really bitter at you about it. Wow! Great! Welcome to the type that has a covert contract with life yeah, that’s not cool. Thank God ISFJ don’t do that much, as much as they do. But that’s usually because they’re holding themselves this insanely high moral standard and yes, it can be alienating other people to the point where they come off as super judgemental. 


And that’s why a lot of family members ISFJ ended up getting a stranger often with people and their families more than, and even in their churches or their close, close close knit people groups, not so much the workplace because if he parent kicks in and says it’s not appropriate to talk about that stuff at work. But outside of that, they can be really alienating and then they wonder why they’d never invited to anything. All that’s because the Fi Critic literally alienated everybody because there’s super high moral standards that they hold themselves and because they’re so forceful remember they’re forcing their moral standard on other people and they don’t even know that they’re doing it and yet they wonder why they’re alone. That’s why. So how do you deal with that? Well, you have to show them appreciation. Oh, by the way both these types need you to show gratitude and appreciation and give them recognition at all times, they need it. They crave it. And that’s the only way that they can live with themselves. Why will the ESFJ worries about their own self-worth this one’s critical towards our own self-worth, but they worry about their own self-worth they worry that they’re a bad person. And if you do not give them the recognition that they crave, they’re gonna continue to worry that they’re a bad person. 


And that will only contribute more towards going towards the demon instead of their hero. And you do not want them to go demon mode because they will control your life. Don’t let that happen. And we talked about Se critical already. Ni Trickster never allow any ISFJ to want anything run for the hills. Do not allow them to want anything, if they start saying what they want do not want them to do it. Only state what you want Oh, I was thinking I’d want… I was thinking Ti and fear that I’d want to do this and I trickster and be like, I don’t want to do that. Thank God, you said that, because that got the, Ne child to wake up, okay? You can want to do that, but I wouldn’t wanna do that. By questioning it they realize, Oh, okay. and then you say, I don’t feel good about that, I don’t value that, I don’t want to do that, Keep them up in their ego. So they realize that they don’t make Ni trickster decisions. ESFJ are the people that will buy cars that they don’t even like. ESFJ are people that will buy property and assets that they don’t even like or care about. 


And they’re so easily taken advantage of by selling them. Luckily I chased based on that problem because ISFJ it’s a very pessimistic towards the salespeople and good luck trying to convince an ISFJ to make that decision. Although they can be had at certain times but certain types, it’s not usual because they’re Ne Inferior is on a lookout for potentially being screwed up by default, whereas Ne Child, not so much. Oh, everyone has good intentions towards me. Yeah, no. That’s not, how life is that nice little dream world, you’re living there ESFJS that’s not actually true, I mean, people are not that good. Oh, but everyone is good, no, they’re not. No, they’re not they’re really evil and they’re going to screw you, and when they see a sucker, like you coming along, oh they just loved that so much. You make it so easy though, it’s like taking candy from a baby. Imagine, ENFP going after an ESFJ Oh man that ENFJ is so screwed. So you have the Te Trickster ISFJ are just not aware of what other people think, they are not aware of the standards that other people have and their Ti child starts talking and telling them the truth and what not. And people are really put off by that, they’re kind of elated by Ti child because don’t they already know that I’m already aware of that yet they’re telling me these things that I’m already aware It makes me feel like they don’t believe that I already know all this stuff. 


They don’t believe that I’m already following this organized religion as well as I am. Which must mean they take I’m a terrible person and then that just further adds the ISFJ alienation of people in our life, because they’re completely unaware that other people have any concept of thinking in their own heads, they are only aware of their own thinking in their own heads. which can also make them come off as selfish, which could be problem to you. Te Trickster also makes it almost impossible for ISFJ to do mathematics on paper. They do it all in their head, right? Forcing an ISFJ childish, write the problem out on paper and you show your work is a keen to like making them fail at math. Ti Child is brilliant allow it to be brilliant, and it will become brilliant. If you force an ISFJ to show their work you were stifling their intelligence and you are stifling their ability to think you’re stifling their ability, to be logical, because logic is if this, then this, if this, then this inside of themselves rationales outside themselves, it’s actually belief when you’re putting a math problem on paper you’re saying, I believe the answer is this because of all of these things, right? 


Whereas a Ti logic person is the answer to this problem is true because of XYZ, because if this then this, and then this, then this and then this, if this and then this, et cetera, it’s all logic based. So just be aware of that. Also ESFP shadows pretty funny ISFP shadow actually could be pretty artistic if ESFJ is allow themselves to be, they can be artistic in that way and produce some fantastic art. But usually they like to be paired up with an ISFP themselves and allow that ISFP to be artistic and then participate in that art every now and then. 


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