How Can an ISTP Stay In Her Femininity? | CS Joseph Responds
CS Joseph responds to the Acolyte Monthly member question how can and ISTP UD SF meet the 8 rules for loving an ENTP whose Octagram is Unconscious Developed and stay in her femininity?
Hey what’s up ego hackers? Welcome to CS Joseph podcast. I’m your host CS Joseph and today’s acolyte question, another ISTP woman question. And it is how can I as an ISTP, UT SF, meet all the eight rules for loving an ESTP, who is unconscious developed while staying in my own femininity? Lot of huge word salad but definitely a valid question and we’re going to be discussing the answer in this show. So, unconscious developed NTP, is the thing, what is unconscious developed? ENTP need? Why are they unconscious developed? Well, it’s because they have an abundance of their shadow pole and the shadow pole is malevolence.
malevolence is basically life has been extremely harsh to the ENTP has an abundance of malevolence in his life stored up memories of pain. But with that pain comes a high level of lessons learned, basically, lessons learned. And those lessons are, are very powerful. What ends up happening to the intp is the intp allows himself to be malevolent to other people.
Sometimes the intp wants to increase the suffering of other people around them. So those people learn the same exact lessons that the ENTP has learned in their life as well. And this is very common among unconscious developed en teepees very common to the point where you can just expect that that’s going to happen all the time, they’re going to be harsh to you. They’re also going to desecrate you because they’re shadow a wheel, which is based on the cognitive origin of reverence, you know, their shadow wheel has desecration if they are unconscious develop, that means they are going to desecrate which means they’re going to take your ego down a few notches, which is necessary for an ISTP woman anyway, because she has a deadly sin of pride.
So if he is actually taking your ego down a few notches and being like malevolent towards you, and increasing your suffering, so you can learn some lessons. Maybe you should accept that and thank him for doing that. Because he’s only doing that because he cares about you. Literally.
He only does it because he cares about you. That’s the only reason he’s doing it. It’s not being a sadist. He’s not being spiteful, per se.
Sometimes they can be sadist, sadistic and spiteful sure if their warrior energy is off, but at the same time he is trying to grow you that is why the NCP man is ultimately there in that position to get you to the point where you’re growing. That’s what it means. That’s the entire point. Right? So be aware of that.
Understand that that’s where that comes from. It’s very necessary. It’s very necessary. It’s a it’s a requirements.
It’s an absolute requirements in your life. So make sure you’re fulfilling that requirement by understanding what that means and why it means that malevolence is there, but because he’s malevolent, he has something else very sensitive about him, right? This is something that ISTP women need to learn about unconscious developed DNTPs when they’re in a sexual relationship with them. There’s two things that an intp man whose unconscious developed needs from a woman in a sexual relationship. The first is they need their ego stroked seriously.
Which is extremely hard, extremely difficult for a prideful ISTP to actually do. It’s extremely hard, stroking other people’s egos when oftentimes the ICP is tried looking for their ego to be stroked, and then all of a sudden, they end up, desecrates them and takes their ego down a notch. And it can actually lead to conflict within the context of the relationship. And ultimately, this is probably one of the main reasons why breakups actually happened.
And it sucks. It really sucks when these breakups happen between en teepees and ISTPs. But it is a thing, you know, like, you gotta you just gotta learn how to stroke their ego. That’s really the reason why is because you know, because life has been so malevolent to them wife has basically also desecrated them consistently, life has torn down the ego of the unconscious developed EMTP his whole life his entire upbringing, especially right, especially as ut UF that’s constant if he’s ut UF or ut SF, which is the hope energy of the NTP not so much, not so much, but it still is a problem.
You gotta be aware of this risk, consistently aware of this risk. And the other thing that NTP man is going to need is fanaticism. No one’s really been a fan of him his whole life or in especially in his upbringing, whole life, it’s up to you, if or if he’s EDS, F, it’s mostly centered around his upbringing. Which means like if you’re a woman, and you’re in a relationship with an unconscious, developed ENTP, if you’re not fangirling over him all the time, and I literally mean all the time, if you’re not fangirling over him, he’s going to choose the woman who fangirls over him mobile view.
And if you’re not willing to be the fan girl, get out, you may as well just give up, give up, you just may get give up on that relationship. I mean, that’s kind of how I am like I’m unconscious, developed, if my woman is not fangirling over me, I will have nothing to do with her. I require, I need that fangirly in my life, that’s just how it is. I need that fangirling.
And honestly, I need my ego stroked, I’m too used to being torn down by everyone throughout my whole life, especially being u2f myself, that if I’m not getting that, it’s just not going to happen. The other problem with the ENTP is that they have INTJ, shadow or unconscious, and the INTJ thing has this issue where it door slams. So if you are being consistent about not fangirling over your ENTP, if you’re being consistent with not stroking his ego, eventually his INTJ shadow is just going to door slam you and you’ve lost your chance with him. And you will never get that chance with him again, due to that failure on your part.
Sucks. That’s just how life works. If you think that’s wrong, if you think that’s disingenuous, well get over yourself. Because that’s literally how life works.
I can’t, I can’t explain it any more than that. That’s just the grim reality. That’s just the grim reality. The other thing as to how to stay in your feminine while you do this, if you’re not expressing needs, emotions, desires and problems that given the NTP the opportunity to solve your problems, if you’re not asking him permission for basically every almost every little thing in your life, and following his lead.
Even if you don’t like it, even if you think that you disagree with it, you’re not going to get anywhere to ENTP. The ENTP has to be comfortable with you following his lead on a consistent basis. And then once he is comfortable with you following his lead, only then will he grant your ni child the opportunity to make decisions on your own. So that the bigger decisions you he’ll trust you the smaller decisions, and the bigger decisions, you’ll have to remain following his lead on indefinitely, and basically giving up that, you know, you’re putting his choice above yours, basically.
And if you’re not willing to submit to Him in that regard, his INTJ shadow, guess what is going to door slam you, he’s going to cut you off, and there’s no way you can come back to that relationship. It is over. You don’t want to find yourself in that situation. You know, and ISTP women are notoriously masculine, they are notoriously emasculating.
And it’s really sad that this happens on a consistent basis, at least NTJ women have a higher chance of you know, getting through that. And it’s one of the reasons why ESTP women are often shows and more often than ISTP women for for ENTP men, because at least the ESTP women have INFJ subconscious with their INFJ subconscious. Because INFJ subconscious is actually more willing to listen, more willing to submit to a man’s lead to the end BS, man, please. So if you’re an ISTP, and you’re struggling with an unconscious developed ESTP, if you’re not gonna play by his rules, you may as well just give up and move on.
And probably not ENTP and unconscious develop dNTP is really just not for you. You have to get to a point where you’re willing to accept that truth. Because you either bend the knee and follow his lead and prove a track record of following his lead by expressing needs, emotions, desires and problems and do it permissively and permissively for everything. And if you’re not willing to do that, nope.
You have no value to the intp they’ll just see you as emasculating. Be able to see you as gross. They will see you as somebody that just like hey, you know, I can’t be in a relationship with this woman get out. That’s really sad.
But that’s the truth. That’s the regular truth. It’s the harsh truth of reality. I SCP women’s struggle so much with being feminine.
And every single iscp woman who has ever attempted to be close to me ever in my entire life has all been emasculating. They didn’t find enroll enough they didn’t stroke my ego enough, they didn’t follow my lead. They want to disagree with literally everything I say, gross emasculating disgusting. Get away from me.
I don’t want to have anything to do with them ever again. And it’s why consistently I keep door slamming them over. And over and over throughout my life. I especially had that problem in my late 20s Oh my god, like I there was a period of my late 20s where I just like I dated like so many women, so many women, within a very short period of time.
I didn’t like I wouldn’t unite myself with them. Because I don’t want to find my si inferior having Stockholm syndrome with them. But the thing is, though, is that like, the reality of the situation is is that they were just so emasculating, like, on day one or day two, I just like, You know what I gotta get out of here. She’s just gross, there’s no way she’d ever follow my lead.
I just have that when you as an intp are used or like, especially on conscious about using your INTJ shadow to actually invest in that woman. And she’s just returning it with pride and returning or trying to solve my problems for me, giving me advice that I never asked for or led her to do. It’s horrible. It’s just really gross.
And again, that’s why there’s consistent problems on a regular basis. And it just keeps growing and growing and growing and getting worse over time. So oftentimes, I get to that point, it’s just like, You know what, I’m done. Gotta cut you off yourself perpetually alone anyway, because they can’t get over the fact that they’re not feminine enough that they don’t express they don’t have that level of self acceptance because there’s too busy looking to other people to provide that self acceptance, or to accept them and add external acceptance, right, which is a form of people pleasing if you think about it.
This sucks. That sucks for them. They’re never actually trained by the mature feminine on how to actually be feminine to begin with. I feel bad for them.
I often do. But at the same time, I can’t have them in my life. I just can’t I have no patience for it whatsoever. A woman is either going to follow my lead or she is not going to follow my lead.
And the woman that does follow my lead is the one who gets my devotion. That’s just how it is. There’s nothing that will get in the way of that. Never get in the way of that.
So anyway, I think that the answer this question for this episode. Thank you all for watching and listening like and subscribe and I’ll see you guys in the next episode.