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Welcome to CS Joseph response. I’m your host Chase, here to answer your questions on any topic union analytical psychology or four sides dynamics. Today’s question is, does talking too much turn off and ENFJ.
Male? And let’s take a look at where this comes from comes from Cora does talking to turn off an ENFJ? Male? And as near as I can tell, it seems like no one answered this question. So we’re going to answer this question. So ENFJ males are the most ideal type for them to be in a relationship with our INFP is also that’s their golden pair, their silver pair is ENFPs, their bronze pair is ISTJ. Basically, those three types, and their pedagogue relationship is intp.
These would be the four relationships that I would recommend them having. If you notice something about three of those four types that they’re all informative. A formative is basically when someone’s talking, they allow other people to choose their role in the conversation, they beat around the bush, it’s kind of like, you know, I used to milk example, all the time on my other YouTube channel. The milk example is basically you know, your you go to the fridge, you open the fridge, and you notice that there’s no milk in there.
And then you say, hey, go get us some milk that’s being direct, right? Or informative. And that foreign person would just make the statement, hey, we’re out of milk, basically hoping that the other person would volunteer to go get the milk. And that’s very informative, right? Well, interestingly enough, three of those four compatible types with the ENFJ are informative, and informative. People have this thing where they could just go on and on and on and on, and just never stop talking.
Especially when it comes to INFPs, which those imp imp types have the highest sexual compatibility with NF J’s. So quite frankly, the more you talk, the better. It’s funny because like, especially like when you’re in a relationship with an INFP, all of a sudden, or even when you’re not in a relationship with an INFP. And they like you and you are their crush, they’ll text you probably 180 times before you respond once.
I’m not even kidding. They’ll write you these huge, huge text letters on Facebook Messenger or discord app or SMS, texting and just goes on and on and on, and on, and on, and on and on and on and on. But yeah, INFJs, especially ENFJ males, they like being the smartest man in the room. Because they’re Introverted Thinking inferior, they are afraid of being incorrect.
They’re afraid of other people not valuing their thoughts, they’re afraid of being stupid, they’re afraid of being incorrect. So when you have an INFP, or an ENFP, or an ENFP, or an NF p type, constantly throwing all of these words at this ENFP ENFJ, it’s like, Oh, I get this opportunity to think about like, literally everything, they’re telling me that gives me all this unlimited input, and I can think about it, and they’re gonna listen to everything I say, Oh, I love being listened to because the INFP is going to basically listen to them. And they’re going to also listen to the INFP. And that way, the INFP is not afraid of other people, especially the ENFJ thinking poorly of them, because the INFP can’t suffer their status being reduced in any way, shape, or form.
Because they are afraid of people thinking less of them, just like an ENFJ is afraid that they’re stupid, basically, that’s why the most hurtful thing you’d ever do to ENFJ, especially ENFJ. Male is to tell them that they’re stupid. And they do it publicly, for example, right? That would be that would be very rough on an ENFJ when ENFJ male, they are pre built for these golden pair relationships or these people such that that they often project other people trying to get other people to behave like their golden pair inf peas, because they they are so desperately seeking for somebody that they can that they will give them all that attention. Because anyone who’s taking the time to send them hundreds of messages on instant messenger and whatnot, is going to make them feel really valued.
They’re going to feel intelligent, right? And then it’s like, wow, I must really be given this person, a really good experience, you know, so, and then they must really, really value my advice, and I can I can advise them and they’re giving me this opportunity to advise them here, you know, and then it just makes the ENFJ hornier and hornier as time goes on. But yeah, I mean, that’s literally how it works. Just talking too much turn off an ENFJ male Absolutely. Literally, hell no, it actually turns them on.
The more you talk, the more you include them, the more you factor them in, it’s like literally every little detail of your life, because they want to know about it for some reason, but they just do, then they will. They won’t, they’ll stop worrying about their self worth, they’ll stop being afraid that they’re not actually intelligent. And then they’ll actually, you know, it’s like, wow, this person really values my thoughts. It’s just, it’s a huge turn on for them, they’re going to absolutely love it.
And they will, they will always want you such that they’re just not going to let go of you basically. So So there you have it. Does talking too much turn off an ENFJ Male No, no, no, it doesn’t. Please continue to talk as much as possible because they’ll just love it.
And if they don’t like it, well then they’re not an ENFJ male and you made the mistake of Miss typing them. If you have a problem with Miss typing, I highly recommend you get the type grade and learn how to type people appropriately. You could do that at CS joseph.ly forward slash type grade. Anyway, I hope you found this video helpful for you folks today please subscribe to the channel leave a like and a comment if you have any questions or comments about NF J’s or potentially inf peas below.
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I was engaged to a Enfj man
I’m a Infp female .. your dead on about all the long messages. At times he felt I was going overboard. But. Couldn’t help myself, I loved him so much and wanted him to know it. Thank you.