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In this video, I’ll be answering the question, what are some life tips for NTPs but before I get into that, I need you to subscribe to the channel and also like hit the little alert bell so you can see every video that like I upload, that would be nice. That being said, Welcome to CS Joseph responds, I’m your host chase here to answer your questions on everything union analytical psychology, the four sides of the mind, also known as foresights dynamics. And obviously, today’s question is, what are some tips for ENTPs and this question is naturally sourced from core. So we have Marina Zimmerman, study that you WC Robert Bosch college, and she offers some of her advice.
And it’s been upvoted by Steve Henkel ENTP, who wrote four books, many magazine articles on subject, apparently, I have no idea if that’s true. So the first bullet point she offers is find a way to deal with your personality type preferences and weigh behavior does not harm others or yourself. Okay, I think that’s self evident. Learn to deal with rules and restrictions as well as with authorities.
This is hard for any intp because we tend to break the rules for the sake of being different than the norm. We often get in trouble because of that. Yeah, that’s kind of true. Although I don’t break the rules.
I am an intp. I don’t break the rules to be different from the norm. I just break the rules, because I think the rules are dumb, or worthless or arbitrary. But that’s a whole other point of view.
I guess, whenever I told myself not to do something because it is BS bad and saying makes no sense will harm others. Me as unhealthy impossible. I now instead prefer to tell myself that it’s boring, and it will turn out to be boring. lacks originality, or it’s a waste of time compared to what I could do instead.
Okay, yeah, but I prefer the previous way. Because it sounds more moral to me. works so much better for me, I’m sure it does. Even if it’s basically tricking myself into doing what I should do by making me want to do it.
Okay, by stopping me from wanting to do other things. Also the way I think it’s the way I think so I do not do drugs will never get addicted to anything so that I have a free mind, which is more important than being able to act as I please. And do not complete. AM, okay.
Fair enough. I mean, it’s kind of there, but not not the best response. Next bullet point. And there we go to my second life tip, learn to focus and find a strategy to succeed in what you want to accomplish in life personally, but do not lose track of the potential all the ideas you ever had, either, you do not need to stick to a fixed plan, or you’ll never be able to do it that way anyway, and we all know that one of our best traits is to be able to adapt in any given situation.
And that future holds that abundance of unexplored possibilities, we will not be able to see if we try to focus on one straight path. So true. This she actually knows what she’s talking about. That’s excellent is because it comes from the interaction style being a starter type starter types are notorious for not finishing things that they start, although most people would tell en TPS, hey, you need to focus on something.
Yeah, definitely focus on something. But the thing is, is that always have multiple irons in the fire and never be ashamed if you’re trying to do like three things at once. Because honestly, we have to trial and error our way through everything. And given that we’re triple systematic, triple systematic means three sides of our mind, the four sides of mind are actually systematic and systematic means we’re focusing on finding the best way of doing something, the best methodology to do something most efficient methodology of doing something, find the best system, the best process, etc.
And which allows us to, you know, find the best way to do something. And this technology was created, you know, inspired by a triple systematically NTP, also known as Steve Jobs, and, you know, triple systematic definitely has its place in the world. And that’s where it is to create you know, the best or find the best way to do something. That’s the whole point behind it.
But the problem is, is that we get so stuck on that sometimes in that focusing on it, that we ended up loose, losing focus, and then having diverted focus or divergent foci, basically, on multiple things simultaneously, it’s actually how we’re able to move forward better. So don’t let anyone criticize you of having different foci. You know, throughout your life, she’s finished as well off by saying, Do not force others to get your work done, or make them do it, either. If you already are procrastinating slacking, II and TPU doesn’t care at all about changing something about it, or other people think of you to not force it on others to make up for your unfitting behavior in your place.
There are times when admitting that you’re at fault to yourself and others is what will gain you the most respect and true self esteem. Very accurate. It’s very hard for a lot of en teepees out there to actually really admit fault because from their ti parent point of view, especially if it’s immature or underdeveloped. They just think that they’re right at all times.
And this leads to a very unhealthy form of stubborn ins, any intp needs to really engage in humility. Because if you don’t, people will naturally want to tear down the intp whereas if you’re you have humility People will naturally want to raise you up. And it it really, it means a lot. So there are times when you Okay, so it’s better for you to first recognize the correctness and speak out loud.
Yeah. So if you’re actually incorrect about something publicly proclaim that you are wrong and take responsibility for it. It goes a long way I do it all the time on my YouTube channel. If I’m actually wrong about something later, I actually make sure people know about it, you know, it is what it is.
So this is what NTPs are the best at and should be also doing our gargling behavior and big talk manipulating others. Laziness lies to detract from inconvenient truths, not acknowledging others efforts in order to help you with your schemes. That’s true NTPs often times do not acknowledge other people’s efforts, which is really, really frustrating and en teepees are constantly scheming all the time. Not a bad thing is what makes them inherently entrepreneurial.
However, not acknowledging other people’s contributions is a serious, serious problem. And just have a habit a really good habit because en teepees are all about being habitual have the habit of giving credit where to do even if you disagree with somebody, you still give them credit words do anyway, even if you don’t like them, you have to keep that chaotic neutral approach as much as you can. So these are all things that will lead you away from the path of the curious on arming honesty, which will interfere with the realization of your goals and destroy your relationships. ENFP ENTPs are actually like the best liars of all the types, even though I maintain ENFPs are actually far more manipulative, and selfish and depraved than ENTPs ENTPs are the most skilled liars and are insanely insincere.
So it’s it’s a huge problem. So Lina, Carrie says courage. your cerebral cortex is more developed active as compared to your limbic system, which makes you oblivious to the primal preservation instinct. But a time when everyone gets scared, you’re acting like no big deal did your frontal cortex was pressing, amygdala response, there’s no magic there.
It’s all about the physiology and your brain. What is good about it, you don’t waver in the face of a challenge people look to you when you and for your leadership ability, even when you feel fear you’d ever show it in the situation when everyone is freaking out, act like the person is at this image, simply because you can. Yeah, that’s true. I mean, en TPS are infamous for improvisation, you know, much like Captain Jack Sparrow, from Pirates of the Caribbean, as played by Johnny Depp, who is actually an intp.
So I mean, that makes a lot of sense. But you know, it’s like you think he plans at all? Or do you think you think he meant he makes it up as it goes, and it’s like, we really make it up as we go constantly. And it’s excellent, that ti parent allows us to have that precision as we do it. But fair enough, some of these answers are kind of weak.
And I don’t want to really waste too much time on these. So I’m just going to get down to my answer right now. So what are the best tips for an intp, the number one best tip that I can give is get over your fear of the unknown, like immediately force yourself to do things through self discipline, to do things that you don’t want to do. You have to do this on a consistent basis, you have to put yourself in uncomfortable situations over and over and over and over and get over your fear of the unfamiliar, also, except that you don’t really actually have any real talent.
But you do have the capability to outwork everybody else. And remember the parable of the rabbit versus the tortoise and they’re racing and whatnot, you want to be the tortoise and the NTPs can be the tortoise. The INTJ, however, is forever cursed to be the rabbit because they’re all about natural talent and being able to run super quick because their triple progression, triple movement within their within three sides of their mind or triple systematic. We also have Introverted Sensing inferior, which when it turns into its aspirational mode, when you go in our eyes, FJ subconscious side of our mind, we’re actually able to literally Outlast anyone.
And we’re able to outwork anyone, and endure and persevere through any adversity better than anybody else. And this is this is absolutely consistent and really necessary. If you do not master that capability. You will be a terrible NTP and you will have to rely on being a shyster and a con artist to get through life instead of actually doing hard work and reaping the rewards of the hard work that you do.
Which is absolutely necessary. You have to do this. And that’s the first thing. The other thing is recognize that you should like, never be like, initiating with the opposite sex.
It is the opposite sex job to initiate with you. It is not your job to initiate with the opposite sex. When you’re trying to have a relationship with somebody. It’s a really bad idea.
You just come off super creepy, like an Axe Murderer when you do that, and I wouldn’t want you to do that. So like definitely don’t. Also, make sure that you’re not being ignorant. With your Introverted Thinking and your logic.
Make sure you’re actually researching and getting multiple sources of input But before you allow your Introverted Thinking processor, because if you don’t do go off because if you don’t, you’re going to find yourself potentially having an internal echo chamber in your head and believing your own lies if you’re not careful, and it gets even worse, you can also you can also end up making decisions based on last known information, Alas, no input, which also puts you down the path to ignorance as well. That’s a waste. Also no one to turn off your expert feeling child, you sound you come off super caring to other people. And that’s awesome.
But they’ll take advantage you NTPs are so easily taken advantage of, even though they’re often the one taking advantage of everybody else, quite frankly, is there’s such skilled manipulators second to the ENFP. But the reason why is because an interest based person will see how self sacrificing the intp can get. And they can actually leverage Stockholm Syndrome against the intp such that the intp ends up you know, becoming like a slave to this other person and interest based persons where if the Win win, but they will create win loses where they get the win and the NTP gets to lose but the NTP thinks it’s okay to self sacrifice themselves, because for the sake of the best way of doing something, and they’re just manipulated, like they’re completely taken advantage of, it’s really absolutely dumb. Also, NTPs can be insanely judgmental, and have this insane justice complex.
If that careful, they’ll end up writing books like mine calm because that’s right out of Hitler isn’t the intp you might want to consider that for a moment. But also like, don’t forget, Malcolm X was also an ESTP. You can like do some comparisons, Steve Jobs is an intp Benjamin Franklin is an ESTP. Again, compare all these men read their books and just come to like a general idea of kind of how they live their lives, for better or worse, so that you could take the good from that and take and learn from the good and the bad, another ENTP that you should also pay attention to Bruce Lee.
Again, when you’re developing your self discipline, I highly recommend to get over your fear and get into martial arts as soon as possible. Learn JKD, Jeet Kune Do, it’s the most complex and direct and ideal form of kung fu out there that exists. And that’s especially necessary from the point of view, you know, when you’re developing your self discipline to become the best NTP you could possibly be. So keep these things in mind.
Also, the more you work to strengthen yourself and strengthen your self discipline, the more successful person you will be the entire time. Also, stop worrying about your own future, because then you end up becoming like this huge hypochondriac. And it’s like, super annoying. So stop doing that either have faith, you have to live your life through faith, not not necessarily what you want.
Because if you’re always focusing on your own future, you’ll end up taking more from people because you’re not sure when the next time you’re going to take from et cetera. Also, please remain critical of statistics and data. And make sure that that is heavily fact checked before you allow yourself to believe that it’s actually true. And make sure that you are constant doing if this than that thinking and logically verify every single thing in your life, including your belief systems, including those traditional belief systems that you were raised within.
Because if you don’t, they will eat your life up and you’ll have literally nothing left, I promise you make sure you get that figured out. Also, you’re unaware of how you feel, and you’re kind of an amoral person. That’s okay. Don’t let people judge you for that either.
And also, sometimes it’s necessary to expose other people, and they’re stupid for their own benefit. And sometimes you get accused of being harsh by others. But you know what be okay with that, because someone’s got to have the guts to tell the truth. And most of the time, it’s actually the DNTPs who actually do.
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